About Anne

How it all came about…

or Anne’s adventures in the world of engineering!

Have You Ever…

been in a situation where you have felt invisible, or worse, relegated to nothing more than “the Secretary”, or someone to serve tea in a room where you are actually “The Expert”?

Did you believe that if you got an education, qualified for a job, had the title and were an authority in your field, that you would be realising your potential and making an impact? Only to find you still feel you are not good enough, can’t put yourself and your ideas forward, and don’t shine when you should?

Or worse, you feel that “life is an exam”, perfection is the standard, you feel judged, and you dread criticism. You don’t know exactly what you have to do to be perfect – you only know you don’t feel it?


You are frustrated because you feel driven to make an impact, and bring your vision into the world, but the more you strive the more impossible it feels. You are scared to get out there, because you feel exposed. You desperately want to shine, but you just hold back and don’t know why.

It is a familiar cycle from that moment when we are faced with “a scary thing”.

That familiar pang of anxiety arrives in our stomach.  

We come up with a hundred excuses for not doing it. Then the stern voice in your head says “pull yourself together”, “you need to participate”, “stop being a wallflower”, and we screw up our courage and do it. But we end up feeling awkward, stupid, humiliated, and crushed.  

Maybe we do ok, maybe we totally hold back, but the fact is we haven’t shone as we wanted to and we certainly aren’t enjoying it as we should.

The best you can hope for is to get through things – and then we repeat all this the next time. Every time.

You Are Not Alone!

There is a real scientific reason for this,
and as a Feminine Power Alchemist, I can assure you there is something you can learn that will skyrocket your confidence in every situation,
and ditch self-doubt for all eternity.

There is a way to break the cycle and stop playing small, stand in your zone of greatness effortlessly, where fear evaporates and you embody your highest vision in the world.

Let me tell you a story…

Once upon a time there was a day just like this when, as a university lecturer in an Engineering Department, I was invited by a well-regarded aerospace company to carry out some collaborative experiments with them. 

I wrote a proposal and arrived to present it to them.

You know how this goes, the female receptionist was the first and last woman I saw. There we are in the meeting, myself and one of our technicians, with 12 leading industry men around this table.

As lead on the project, I was at the overhead projector explaining our proposal when half way through one of the men interrupted with a question about the apparatus. I invited our technician to answer as appropriate. 

That man then engaged the technician in a discussion, and just kept on talking.  He brought other men into the discussion around the table. All the time I’m standing like a lemon at the overhead projector, waiting for them to shut up so I can continue with the presentation.  

THEY NEVER DID STOP! 


Can you believe I stood there for an hour and a half, feeling as if I were inside “the King’s Palace” with all my power stripped from me, suddenly invisible, and irrelevant.

I was so humiliated by this experience that I actually didn’t even tell anyone about it for over 20 years.

And of course this wasn’t the only incident, it was one of many – some publicly humiliating, some an indefinable undercurrent of negativity. But the same message repeated over and over again. A message that told me I wasn’t good enough.

This is a common experience for women, being made to feel as if we are not credible; let alone given the common courtesy of professional respect commanded by our positions, which loops straight into feeling not good enough and feeling vulnerable.

The more it happens, the worse you feel, obviously. I can’t even describe how I felt that day – utterly destroyed! 

The 3D Spider’s Web of Limitation

Luckily, I am an scientist. I went home and applied an absolutely scientific procedure to the issue, “Identify the problem; analyse what is happening; look at the the root cause; change the parameters; test it and see if we can change the situation.”

What I discovered is literally a game changer, it is what I call the 3D Spider’s Web of Limitation.

We are literally bound by what’s forbidden to women, and it is holding you in your “designated place” – not the one you want to occupy, have worked hard to qualify for, and in the 21st Century we are entitled to, the one decided for you by “Generational Conditioning”.

When you go into a room and feel your confidence plummet and your self-belief drop through the floor, this is what you are feeling!

As women, we know for a fact we are entitled to be here and treated as an equal, with the same opportunities and freedom to achieve anything you want in life as any man.

However, because of that 3D Spider’s Web of Limitation we often feel as if we don’t have the right to exist in the world.

The 3D Spider’s Web of Limitation

Luckily, I am an scientist. I went home and applied an absolutely scientific procedure to the issue, “Identify the problem; analyse what is happening; look at the the root cause; change the parameters; test it and see if we can change the situation.”

What I discovered is literally a game changer, it is what I call the 3D Spider’s Web of Limitation.

We are literally bound by what’s forbidden to women, and it is holding you in your “designated place” – not the one you want to occupy, have worked hard to qualify for, and in the 21st Century we are entitled to, the one decided for you by “Generational Conditioning”.

When you go into a room and feel your confidence plummet and your self-belief drop through the floor, this is what you are feeling!

As women, we know for a fact we are entitled to be here and treated as an equal, with the same opportunities and freedom to achieve anything you want in life as any man.

However, because of that 3D Spider’s Web of Limitation we often feel like we don’t have the right to exist in the world.

There’s Nothing Wrong With You!

What if I told you there is nothing wrong with you. You feel this way, not because you are not good enough but because you don’t have the “Power Foundation” built over history, that a man has. You are more than good enough, you have an unlimited, untapped power.

What if I told The Beast is far older than you but you can overcome it with the right tools. That you can reconnect to the source of immeasurable strength, that you can learn to wield anytime, in any situation to  “Pull Back Your Power”?

Since I developed my life-changing process to “Pull Back Your Power” in any situation, I can handle all this very differently.

What if I told you there is nothing wrong with you. You feel this way, not because you are not good enough but because you don’t have the “Power Foundation” built over history, that a man has. You are more than good enough, you have an unlimited, untapped power.

What if I told The Beast is far older than you but you can overcome it with the right tools. That you can reconnect to the source of immeasurable strength, that you can learn to wield anytime, in any situation to  “Pull Back Your Power”?

Since I developed my life-changing process to “Pull Back Your Power” in any situation, I can handle all this very differently.

That fear, that reticence, that anxiety we experience wherever we go, with our partners, peers, line-manager, or even when you have to phone the mechanic to book your car in for a service, is because we have gone into submission, as simple – but as powerful – as that.

This normal, every day experience is amplified in a meeting, presentation, and each time you try to expand your visibility, where we really feel like it is life or death. I’ve lost count of the number of times I felt I was going to the guillotine, when in fact I was just trying to expand and shine in the world! 

When we use the “Pull Back Your Power” process, we are in a position of strength that feels effortless, speaking up becomes easy, and the fears evaporate in a way we have never experienced before.

“The Kitchen Maid to University Made Timeline”

It is important to know the scientific context for us as women today, born into the bright new world where we are meant to be able to have all the same things equally, but this right has only been true for the span of a lifetime.

I call it the “Kitchen Maid to University Made Timeline”; my grandmother was a kitchen maid and I, in two generations, am a Cambridge University Graduate Scholar with First Class Honours, PhD and Research Fellowship.

An enormous shift in a very short time. This is both remarkable and the problem!

Men are supported by history, but we as women are undermined by it.

Instead of layers of history reassuring us that we are entitled, our history tells us that our place is in the home, that we must obey, that men are cleverer than women, that we don’t have a say over our children or our money, we need to be’ demure’, downcast’, quiet’, modest’, that we need to be protected, and if we are powerful we will be drowned or burned as witches. It might sound ridiculous to our modern ears, but in the depths of our subconscious minds, these things undermine us like a slow poison.

In energetic terms, we are aware we have rights, that we are entitled to equal opportunity, but under the surface we have ancient messaging that pulls the magic carpet from under us.

We may have equality under the law, but we don’t have a level playing field. The rate of change of society has been huge and rapid but the underlying cultural subconscious constructs simply haven’t had a chance to catch up yet.  

And we are working to ideas of a “perfect” standard
that are absolutely not designed for us,
or even about us.

Perfection is Male

Perfection is Male

All you have to do is look to Michelangelo’s famous image of God giving life to Adam – in fact, I actually use this painting when I am teaching where the idea of “perfection” comes from to my students – Male God gives Male Adam life – perfection is male life.

It was while studying Art History A level – a bit odd for a scientist I know, but it kept me sane. I loved the deep journey into the world of the Italian Renaissance. Hour after hour I spent in a little room in the art department with an old fashioned slide projector, studying the masters: Botticelli, Piero Della Francesca, Titian,  Leonardo Da Vinci and of course Michelangelo. For months this all washed over me as I absorbed perspective and proportion, and the ideal classical beauty in form. It was fascinating to me and I loved it, until the day my lovely art teacher, Miss Date, talked about the “Golden Section”, showing us all these paintings with these ratios clearly marked.   

Suddenly I had a revelation – this perfect ideal beauty of the human body being shown was male and on display everywhere for centuries was The Vitruvian Man, by Leonardo da Vinci around 1490 – Male, throughout.

The full understanding didn’t come until I did this work I teach today, but I look back and see in that moment what it at the root of it all. No matter what I did, I would always be me, and I could not be what the world labelled as “perfect” and neither can you. This is what the whole Classical world, the Renaissance, leading into our modern western civilisation, is showing us.

Back in that art room I didn’t understand how significant this was, but I always remember that moment of clarity even though I was not able to anything about it then. Our world, was created by men, in their image, to suit them; their attributes, bodies, characteristics, ways of doing things, and ideals, all set as the gold standard – the perfect way – the only way.

The understanding for us is “I’m female therefore my body is imperfect, I’m not good enough.  No matter how hard I try, no matter what I achieve and how many men I outshine with my brilliance, I can not be perfect. Ever.”

This ‘male is perfect’ energy is deeply ingrained in all our institutions, our attitudes, and our world and we, as women, feel it under the surface and understand we are female, we are imperfect.

The essential distinction here – we KNOW this is utter rubbish, but what we FEEL is completely different. 

This is at the very core of what undermines our confidence, our feminine power, and our success. This is the root of our ’not good enough’ and ‘imposter syndrome’ struggles.

Everything Can Be Different Today

NOW

Everything can be different today. Now. Especially in situations where you are not in your comfort zone, or you are deferring your needs for everyone else.

It is time to redefine “perfect’, so you can allow yourself to blossom into your full potential, and shine…

Effortlessly!

The “Pull Back Your Power” process

Last September, my husband, who is a CEO, suggested that I go to an entrepreneurs’ workshop run by one of his acquaintances. My immediate response was a pang of anxiety in my stomach and excuses not go to, I arrive early and I’m feeling terrified walking around the park, I know that I have already given all my power away.  If we have no power we go into submission, and of course this makes us feel even less safe so anxiety goes up – it’s a vicious cycle.

But I have resources now, and the “Pull Back Your Power” technique, and  I pull it back from the idea of the workshop, talking to strangers, and being out of my comfort zone. Within a couple of minutes I have the courage to go in. Even if you have a bit of a wobble, you can nip into the ladies and use my “Pull Back Your Power” process.  

This workshop was the very first time I had put my techniques to the test in a situation which naturally freaks me out totally.  In that workshop, I found myself speaking up, asking questions, contributing, easily and effortlessly.  I wasn’t having to screw my courage up to do it either.

I just felt confident and the equal of everyone there. The other people there were from IT, bespoke kitchens, app development, holiday packages, people who would have been very scary people in my old way of being.  My reaction was so “un-Anne-like”.

My Reaction Was So
“un-Anne-like”

At the break, we were meant to do some networking to practise and I used my “Pull Back Your Power” process again. Instead of hiding in the corner, I just went up to a group of people and, because I was holding the power, they all turned to me and talked to me.  Several even commented on how relaxed and confident I was compared with how they felt. I was absolutely blown away with how effective it was. – it had even exceeded my expectations.

I hadn’t changed who I was, but I had used my
“Pull Back Your Power” process and held it,
and it had not only changed the way I behaved,
it totally changed the way people reacted to me.

The Original Sketches

The Results

This Cinderella Bootcamp was out of this world. It was so life changing for me, being able to be be confident, assertive and speak up was one of the biggest challenges I faced. Having applied the techniques taught by Anne along with the healings provided I was able to stand in my power in a difficult situation and actually got results. Ever since the Bootcamp I’ve never felt anxious which is just amazing because I now have the tools to deal with situations or people that could cause me to get stressed. I apply the tools daily and I am more conscious and have a sense of peace.

Anne is a brilliant teacher, everything about the Bootcamp is awesome; the healings, presentations, handouts are of qood quality and just perfect. The content was so clear and concise and of very good quality. The membership site is lovely and user friendly. It’s easy to download recordings and the literature. Anne is just the best! So caring and supportive, and always responded to our questions or concerns throughout the Bootcamp.

The best thing is the results! The fact that I had evident results by applying what Anne taught was what I enjoyed most. Also the ladies on the Bootcamp were very supportive to each other so we felt we in it together and no one was alone. I loved the togetherness.

It feels amazing to stand in my power!
Every woman needs to be part of the Cinderella Bootcamp, it’s honestly so life changing.”

Philippa N.

“My healing journey started about 10 years ago, and that was when I first read about the Law of Attraction, and it answered some things about why I felt so blocked in my life, career etc. As I researched more about energy and healing, and went to many different courses, I felt positive shifts in my life – but only here and there. I could not understand why there was no positive shift career-wise, or why my health hadn’t improved all these years – and 10 years is a long time to keep experiencing constant failure and struggle. I always wondered, if the Law of Attraction works for others – then why not me?

I did wonder if Cinderella Bootcamp would actually work for me, but signed up for the course anyway ……and thank God I did!

Cinderella Bootcamp provided me with the answers, healing and tools I needed, that helped me shift the issues that had kept me stuck all these years. If I think about myself just 8 weeks ago before the Bootcamp, I remember how powerless I felt in most parts of my life, having no boundaries, and not be able to stand up for myself and always found it hard to express my femininity, etc.

Although I feel, I would have to go through the Bootcamp again, many times before I feel the shifts to the levels I want, I can already feel myself standing in my power and interacting with people with boundaries, whereas in the past, I remember just giving my power away to nearly everyone I know, not realising what a big negative impact it had on me.

And now, I feel like a completely different person. I can now understand why and how I had so many problems, I feel empowered and have healthy boundaries, and actually feel feminine for the first time in my life! And the amazing thing is, I now have the tools and healing I can use everyday to overcome issues that before were completely unsolvable for me.

The beauty of Cinderella Bootcamp is, the whole program is gentle, as in; easy to understand content, fun and enjoyable but at the same time deeply effective and really digs deep to get to the root of the problems.

Anne provides you with the knowledge, does the deep healings that I’ve seen no other modality touch before, and provides you with the tools you can use to shift anything – whether it’s a very small issue or a deep trauma. I feel kind of sad now that it is over, but happy that we have a Facebook group that supports our Bootcamp journeys, and each other.

Samina M.

“I have stepped into a whole new energy. I have loved discovering myself as a brand new person every day and knowing that I am raising my vibration and therefor the vibration of my life. My whole energy and future feels brighter, lighter and so much more fun to be in. I truly feel honoured and blessed to be living into the life that I am now living into.

I went from living in constant fear and anxiety, drinking regularly, eating unhealthily and just feeling like I was on the edge of a nervous breakdown to living with less anxiety, knowing my worth and value and feeling like I have a choice and a say in the matter. I no longer put myself into situations that don’t align with who I am and that stress me out.
Sally M.

“Although I had completed a lot of healing with many different modalities over the years. BootCamp 2.0 gave me an opportunity to gain a deeper understand of my foundations and why some of my blocks, (frustratingly) still prevented me from moving forward. Through Anne’s clear and passionate presentations of her understanding of the female disempowerment that we live with, within our DNA and ingrained into society. It became apparent that Anne’s healing modalities tools and attunements would give me the opportunity to set myself free. I was excited by the prospect of living my truth AT LAST.

Each week the calls with Anne explained and presented in a way that everyone taking part would connect with, what every your life experiences had been to that point, that as females in this powerful group that Anne had created, would be some amazing break-throughs and life-changing opportunities. I chose to commit to the process, I wanted to change, I want to live my life differently, I wanted to learn, grow and empower myself to achieve anything I set my mind too, but this time get real results.

Anne always delivers huge amounts of passion for her subject, involves herself fully in your healing process, is guided by the higher energies to achieve the best outcome for everyone and with respect for the greater good of ALL.

During the course, I completed the tasks each week with some hesitation and a lot of emotion but kept in mind the bigger picture, my goals and why I want my life to change. My mind and body went through many changes over the course, I had been given tools and understandings that this was ok and to be kind to myself. It’s a little like travelling through a long tunnel, you can’t really see where you’re going but the light is there and you have the guidance of Anne to reassure you, encourage you and remind you of the process. Each day I work with tools Anne has taught me, I am gaining more and more power back, I am feeling happier in myself, achieving albeit small, but never the less reaching the next step on my journey to where I want to be, and allowing myself to enjoy it.

I am feeling more empowerd to stand up for myself especially in relationships, I AM VALUING MYSELF.”

Leanne F.

“I signed up with Anne 15 years after the attack.  I had thought I’d put the rape behind me, but the truth is I’d just suppressed it.  I’d started my own business, employing over twenty people, and was pretty successful I thought, but then my stress began to skyrocket.  I began to suffer terrible panic attacks, migraines, nausea and dizziness.  Some days I couldn’t get out of the house because of the anxiety.  My work began to suffer and I knew I had to do something.  After the first intensive session with Anne I felt as if a huge weight had lifted from me. After this we addressed my feelings of anger and resentment about the attack. I had thought I’d never be able to let these things go, but I found a new understanding and have been able to.  My physical symptoms have subsided dramatically.  I feel relaxed and my sleeping is better.  I’m now back at work and ready to take my business to the next level.  I’m so grateful I invested in myself with Anne.

Deevah P.

The Box Is Too Small!

The box that we women are all given, and told to fit into, is actually too small for all our feminine power.

We go into the King’s Palace, these perfect male environments where one size fits all, but that one size is Male. To fit in we have to shut down our empathic, intuitive, intrinsic female powers to be accepted, and we crush ourselves into a small box.

This conditioning to fit into the box is so deep and so long-standing, over the centuries we have created these many layered blocks and restraints of “Obsolete Protection”, so old we can’t see them for what they are. 

Now is our time to embrace our power – at least that’s what everyone tells us! But what do you do it you aren’t a fierce warrior, or an angry feminist?

What do you do if you’re sensitive and feel blocked by fears and the aggressive energies you feel on a daily basis out in that King’s Palace?  

What if imposter syndrome is eating away at you, and self-criticism holding you back at every turn?

Let me show you how to reactivate your true feminine power, transform your conditioning and create the power foundation you’ve been lacking. When you do this, you feel confident and safe without having to change who you are!

We can never be whole until we stop trying to
squeeze ourselves into that box that will never fit.

Now is the time to free ourselves from
the 3D Spider’s Web of Limitation imposed on us by history,
so we can finally shine and achieve, effortlessly.

Are You Ready To
Pull Back Your Power?


As a Female Power Alchemist,
I help visionary women to reactivate their ancient intrinsic magic,
to become the powerful Enchantress inside, create their own “Energy Matrix Power Foundation” that puts you on a level playing field, to embrace your
fully-faceted female power,
and embody your highest vision for yourself – effortlessly.

 


As a Female Power Alchemist,
I help visionary women to reactivate their ancient intrinsic magic,
to become the powerful Enchantress inside, create their own “Energy Matrix Power Foundation” that puts you on a level playing field, to embrace your
fully-faceted female power,
and embody your highest vision for yourself – effortlessly.

 

ARE YOU READY TO CREATE
YOUR POWER FOUNDATION?

If you want to pull back your power and create an energetic power foundation for yourself, I have shared all this knowledge in my book “Pull Back Your Power”.  Order your copy and start your journey into true empowerment.  

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